This is one of my favorite photos from 2009. We were at my cousin Nicole's place, a nifty restored old house on the Westfield river. We took a picnic lunch and the kids (I took a personal day from work) and went swimming. In 2010 I want more days like that care free happy day.
I resolve to take compliments better. I will not shrug them off, deny them or make excuses. I will accept them gracefully.
I will say
yes more often. To myself, to my children, to my friends, to handsome men in hats and too chocolate cake. Mostly to the cake.
Which bring me to the obligatory "I will lose 20 pounds this year" resolution. Blah, I have a woman's hips which works out well because I am a women. So.. more salad, yes. But also, more cake. More Sushi too! I'll stop saving that treat for special occasions.
I will learn at least two of the following.
Sewing
Making Sushi
Book binding
Photography
Tennis
I will buy less, use less, consume less and throw less away.
I will smile more. At you.
I will be less judgmental. Seriously. Who the eff am I?
I will dedicate more time to my art. Whatever it may be.
I will do what the boys want to do more often. Hiking, biking, playing Guitar Hero, eating at gross Friendly's and maybe.. just maybe.. letting Nick take a girl to the movies. (But probably not, who am I kidding?)
Mostly though I resolve to make the best of 2010. I will not kneel to any circumstance, I will not give in or give up. Like compliments I will take each little crisis and calamity in stride, with a smile and never forget that.. this too shall pass.